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But focusing on this as Anne does really sets us up for such a shallow sexuality that corresponds with Cassual and pop Freudian assumptions. These rules, which have to do with things that are all destined to perish with use, are based on merely human commands and teachings.
Such ccasual indeed have an appearance of wisdom, with their self-imposed worship, their false humility and their harsh treatment of the body, but they lack any value in restraining sensual indulgence" 2: I would suggest it's a shallow spirituality adulr relies upon external boundaries such as never ride in alone in a car with a married man. For some, these external rules are wise because they just have a difficult time with maturity. But to portray those external rules for "good Mature adult wants casual affair or "good men" is a shallow spirituality leaning more towards the spirit of Mature adult wants casual affair Pharisees.
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I would suggest the brother-sister metaphors in Mississippi local females New Testament give us something much more to think about discerning boundaries than this blog post does. So looking forward to a conference on the very subject of sacred friendship between men and women this month: It Maturd to Mature adult wants casual affair, with a woman, with whom I thought I was completely safe.
Afterwards I was so burned and hurt and damaged that I was fearful to have any friends at all. After six months of hibernation and reconnecting my marriage, my first friendship was with another man. I was too frightened to be friends with women Mature adult wants casual affair.
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That's who I want to be like. That's real, grace-filled, sacred, fearless, friendship. While I'm firmly in favor of boundaries, I think we severely limit ourselves when we only look at the opposite sex as possible sex partners.
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